a bit of a sissy or you were soft if you talked about your emotions
feminine behaviours" at the bottom of the manly scale - "love, care, empathy, seeking help to deal with issues, even seeking help for healthcare
for sure then you were a little bit lacking in the man department
I say to such men, feminised metro-man will never do well in this dog-eat-dog world.
all agree on what should go at the top: men controlling women, men should be tough, men should be physically strong, they should be providers, financially successful, protectors of women, men are superior, men should always be independent and always know what they're talking about, really in control
And women should listen and obey. Harden up and get on with it.